As we continue focusing on parental presence, I came across a post by Danny Steele from Leadership, Learning, and Culture that really stuck with me:
"Teachers don’t always need a new strategy, a new activity, or a new resource. Sometimes… what they need is encouragement. They need to be reminded that they’re professionals, that they’re good at what they do, and that what they’re doing every day really does matter."
That quote got me thinking, not just as an educator, but as a parent. Just like teachers need encouragement, parents do too. I know firsthand how easy it is to wonder, Am I doing enough? Between work, schedules, and the never-ending to-do list, it’s easy to feel like we should be doing more to support our children’s learning. But here’s the truth: the little things matter.
Whether it’s asking about their day, reading together, or just showing interest in what they’re learning, small actions add up. Parents don’t need to have all the answers or perfect strategies. They just need to know that their presence matters.
Tip 1: Remind Parents They’re Doing Great
I know I’ve questioned whether I’m doing enough, and I’ve seen other parents do the same. That’s why I always remind myself and others: You’re doing great. The time, effort, and care you put in no matter how small, truly help your child succeed. A simple conversation, a word of encouragement, or just showing up for them means more than we realize.
Tip 2: Celebrate Small Wins
As a parent, I’ve learned that the little victories matter. When my child struggles with something and finally figures it out, that’s a big deal! Whether it’s finishing a book, tackling a tough math problem, or simply being curious about a new topic, these moments deserve to be celebrated. Recognizing their progress boosts their confidence and reminds them (and us) that learning is a journey.
Tip 3: Encourage Open Communication
I’ve found that some of the best insights into my child’s learning come from simple, everyday conversations. A question like, “What was the best part of your day?” or “Tell me something new you learned today” can spark great discussions. It’s not about having the perfect answer it’s about letting them know we care, we’re listening, and we’re in this together.
Parenting and teaching have a lot in common, we’re all just trying to do our best to help kids grow. So let’s keep encouraging each other along the way.
How do you support and uplift parents?
I’d love to hear from you! What are some ways you connect with parents and remind them that they matter? Leave a comment below and share your thoughts!
Erin, this is such a great reminder for all of us. I think that explicit feedback about the accomplishment - such as solving a math problem and recognizing that they have overcome a struggle is also key. Feedback can be hollow if we are positive without recognizing the specifics of the accomplishment. Kudo's Erin on a great post!
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This is so important to remind our parents and teachers. Creating relationships and small nuggets of trust, positive steps and success.